Live Like a Champion – Week 17

“The Promise of Joy”

John 15:9-17 (NLT)

 

“I have loved you even as the Father has loved me. Remain in my love. When you obey my commandments, you remain in my love, just as I obey my Father’s commandments and remain in his love. I have told you these things so that you will be filled with my joy. Yes, your joy will overflow! This is my commandment: Love each other in the same way I have loved you. There is no greater love than to lay down one’s life for one’s friends. You are my friends if you do what I command. I no longer call you slaves, because a master doesn’t confide in his slaves. Now you are my friends, since I have told you everything the Father told me. You didn’t choose me. I chose you. I appointed you to go and produce lasting fruit, so that the Father will give you whatever you ask for, using my name. This is my command: Love each other.

 

This Week’s Memory verse: John 15:11:

I have told you these things so that you will be filled with my joy. Yes, your joy will overflow!
 

 

INTRODUCTION:

 

Before I get started today, it’s important that you know this! You would think that I would have learned this by now, but I am here to tell you that the message you will be hearing today has already been tested in my own life. Just like test driving a car before you buy it, God would not let me preach or even prepare this message until it had been tested in my own life. I have grown up in church my whole life, so I have lots of resources to draw from when preparing a message. But God was like “Don’t get them what they have probably heard before or even leftovers that have been in the freezer of your life. Let’s give them something FRESH!” So if you hear or see some strong emotions come out during my sharing what God has laid on my heart, it is not for ‘dramatic affect’ or me trying to pull at your heart strings. God wants you to hear this!

 

THE DEVIL IS OUT TO STEAL YOUR JOY!
 
In other words, he is trying to steal one of the most important promises of God from you. Why, you might ask? Because if he is successful, he has stunted the growth of the fruit of the Spirit and stifled His work in your life. Joy is the second one listed in Galatians 5…love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness and self-control. Since nothing can separate us from God’s love once we have Him in our lives, the devil goes after the other parts. And if he can steal your joy, then it’s hard to have all the other parts of the fruit of the Spirit active and growing in your life.

 

Minister and author Samuel D. Gordon says joy is defined as:

“distinctly a Christian word and a Christian thing. It is the reverse of happiness. Happiness is the result of what happens of an agreeable sort. Joy has its springs deep down inside. And that spring never runs dry, to matter what happens. Only Jesus gives that joy. He had joy, singing its music within, even under the shadow of the cross.” (from his ‘Quiet Talks’ series of books)

 

As a child, we were taught several songs that spoke to this fact. So while I am bringing you fresh words from God today, I will also be reminding some of you of what you had heard in the past as a child and need to bring back to the forefront of your hearts and minds.
 
 

I. I’ve Got the Joy, Joy, Joy Joy Down in My Heart!

 

A. Where does it start?
 
Down in my heart
 
B. What does the heart represent?
 
Love…. can’t have joy without love, can’t have peace without love, etc.
God is the source of the love that we need that feeds the joy

 

John 15:9-10
I have loved you even as the Father has loved me. Remain in my love. When you obey my commandments, you remain in my love, just as I obey my Father’s commandments and remain in his love.”

 

C. Today’s text follows Jesus’ words about abiding in the vine.
 
You have to be in the vine to be nourished by it and to grow fruit.

 

(fun fact…Grapes, unlike other fruits, do not continue to ripen once off the vine) This is strong example of why we need to stay attached to the vine in order to produce the sweetest and best fruit!
 
D. We know what God’s Word says.
 
How do we put it into practice?
 

 

1 Corinthians 16:13-14 (ESV)

Be watchful, stand firm in the faith, act like men, be strong. Let all that you do be done in love.”

 

~Be Alert

~Be faithful

~Be a mature adult

~Be strong

~Be loving (do all in love…EVERYTHING)

 

 

Motivational speaker and author Jim Rohn made this statement regarding love and joy and how they work together:

 

“Nothing can bring more joy to life than beautifully fulfilling relationships.”

 

 

We all know that there are no flawless relationships, but there are meaningful ones. They don’t just happen…you have to work at them. And John, the disciple that writes the most about God’s love, gave us these words from Jesus as a reminder that since we are called His disciples, we must live out that love in all areas of our lives. We are to serve one another in love! That is what will bring us joy!
 
 

 

II. The Joy Source

 

 

John 15:11

“These things I have spoken to you, that my joy may be in you, and that your joy may be full.”
 

 

A. Who’s joy are we to have?
 
Jesus’ joy (“my joy)
Not what the world tells us (found in our jobs, our hobbies, or other people)
 
B. Why is it based in Jesus?
 
That we may be full.

But also demonstrates who is our source.

 

 

Psalm 28:7 (NLT)
“The Lord is my strength and shield. I trust him with all my heart. He helps me, and my heart is filled with joy. I burst out in songs of thanksgiving.”

 

 

David recognized that his help comes from the Lord. The Lord protects him, helps him and fills his heart with joy, so much so, that he proclaims it SONGS (multiple) of praise and thanksgiving.

 

C. Our actions speak louder than our words.
 

 

Philippians 4:4-5
“Always be full of joy in the Lord. I say it again—rejoice! Let everyone see that you are considerate in all you do. Remember, the Lord is coming soon

 

 

Paul wrote these words to the Philippian church… “to ALWAYS be full of joy!”

WHY? So it would be a testimony to others who are watching!

 

 

III. Is Joy conditional?

 

James 1:2-3 (NLT)
“ Dear brothers and sisters, when troubles of any kind come your way, consider it an opportunity for great joy. For you know that when your faith is tested, your endurance has a chance to grow.”

 

(ESV) says to “count it all joy…when trials come~grumblings, murmuring, sarcasm?
 

 

A. In everything, give…? 
~grumblings, murmuring, sarcasm?  Give THANKS

 

Shannon, Kenny & Kenton Rose. One of my ‘kids’ in youth group and close with whole family. (Easter 2021)

Her momma wrote: Don’t think for one second that because she is sweet and compassionate that she is weak. Oh No! This girl can break a horse, train a dog, drive a boat, pull a four horse trailer and back it up wherever it needs to go. She can load and unload 50 bales of hay without complaint….She is strong and she is a fighter… She recently received a diagnosis of metastatic cancer in her breast, ovary, and a 5.9cm tumor in the bone of her shoulder. She is currently having a bone scan to see if the cancer has “camped” anywhere else. During this most devastating news, she has maintained her resolve to do whatever it takes to be victorious in this journey.

She has not let this diagnosis steal her joy. She was asked to be a part of a clinical trial study at Duke Cancer Institute that is showing great promise.

Quote from Kenny when I told him our church would be praying: Ken, Thank you buddy! We are giving this to God daily and trusting in him for healing! Thank you for the prayers! I’m believing that this will become a beautiful story to help someone down the road!

They are facing this trial knowing that through it all, God will be glorified.

 

B. God will use our joy to inspire others

 

Nehemiah 8:10 (NLT)
“And Nehemiah continued, “Go and celebrate with a feast of rich foods and sweet drinks, and share gifts of food with people who have nothing prepared. This is a sacred day before our Lord. Don’t be dejected and sad, for the joy of the Lord is your strength!”

 

Nehemiah was there to encourage the people.

Not to be a ‘Debbie Downer’ or a ‘Negative Nancy’

 

Recently while listening to KLOVE radio, the hosts of the afternoon show were talking about having a good time, laughing and enjoying time together when someone came in and they were in a bad mood. They had a choice to let that person influence them, or they could try to encourage and boost the spirits of that person.

 

Hebrews 10:24-25 (NLT)
“Let us think of ways to motivate one another to acts of love and good works. And let us not neglect our meeting together, as some people do, but encourage one another, especially now that the day of his return is drawing near.”

 

C. We are the ones to choose joy

 

Be bitter or be better.
 
 

CONCLUSION:

 

We make choices every day: To get up out of bed, or roll over and stay there; to take a shower, or just throw on our clothes that may or may not be clean; to eat healthy or grab whatever sounds good, which is usually something that is not good for you; to get mad at the driver who cut you off, or think that maybe God is slowing you down for a reason….you get the idea.

 

God’s Word tells us in Romans 8:38-39 that nothing can separate us from His love, but He still gives us the choice in what we are going to do with it. What are you going to choose to do with it?

 

We are told that out of the abundance of the heart, the mouth speaks (Luke 6:45), so are your words reflecting His love for Him and for others?

 

Child’s song: Jesus and Others and You

Jesus and others and you. What a wonderful way to spell joy.
Jesus and others and you. in the life of each girl and each boy
“J” is for Jesus for He has first place, “O” is for others you meet face to face,
“Y” is for you, in whatever you do, Put your self third and spell JOY.

 

In this self-centered, me first, and what’s in it for me world we live in, it is our job to shine the light of God’s love and joy. They have to see the hope, the grace and the mercy that flows out of God’s love. And it must be shown in the way we live our lives. We can say it all we want, but unless we show it in our actions, all we are is noise makers.

 

Peter writes in 1 Peter 1:6-7(NLT)
“So be truly glad. There is wonderful joy ahead, even though you must endure many trials for a little while. These trials will show that your faith is genuine. It is being tested as fire tests and purifies gold—though your faith is far more precious than mere gold. So when your faith remains strong through many trials, it will bring you much praise and glory and honor on the day when Jesus Christ is revealed to the whole world.”

 

So as the worship team comes, we are going to open up the altars.

  • Maybe you have lost your joy. Jesus wants to meet you here and restore the joy of your salvation (process we have to work on daily…justification, sanctification, glorification)
  • Maybe you are feeling weak from all the things the world has been throwing at you lately. Jesus wants to meet you here and let you know that His Joy will be your strength as you cast all your cares on Him.
  • Maybe the devil has put a cork in your fountain of joy by filling your mind with distractions and lies. Jesus wants you to let go and let God do the work in you!
 
John 15:16 (NLT)
“You didn’t choose me. I chose you. I appointed you to go and produce lasting fruit, so that the Father will give you whatever you ask for, using my name.”

 

He is calling forth a team to go out and share this message of joy that this world so desperately needs!

 

 
 

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